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Notice of migrating !

Just a notice to all the people who subscribe to my blog that i will be transferring my blog to a new website (With different domain) which is Wordpress. Why do i do that? I prefer having my own site where there is no control or other party who can access to my ownership which made me feel insecure that my blog can be shut down anytime. Not only that, I want to 'upgrade' this blog or website to the next level. It provide more and variety choice of customize option. It also allows me to take it to the next level of blogging and also allow me to reach out to more audience ! Please don't get me wrong , i am trying to say Wordpress is better. Both of them provide different types of pros and cons. I really love Blogger , it also have varieties of features that wordpress don't have. Blogger really suit the people who don't want complexity. That the reason i use blogger the first time as i just want to create a blog and shoot my post out there. So if you are interes...

How to be good at conversation?

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Let me start with this conversation between you and Nick. Imagine you are talking to Nick. What do you think of the following conversation? Have a blessed read and role play.  You : So hey there! Nice looking, it's been a year since i last saw you. How are you doing?   NIck : Fine You : So how your work?  Nick : Good, can be tiring sometimes ! You : That great! Me too, i just got a promotion last month! You know what, i heard my boss will be planing to have a office trip, maybe to Spain or Mexico. I hope we will be going to Tokyo instead. Nick : Cool! You have a great  life indeed. You : Not going anywhere? Nick :  Nah! Stuck with my work You : Opps! how rude of me, how your parents doing ? Nick : Fine, as usual Don't be a conversation terminator!  Get what i am trying to say here? You probably never come across this term "Conversation Terminator" but that what i like to call it. (Probably there is a legit term for it) "Co...

How to move on from a break up?

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How to move on from a breakup ? Going through a breakup? 💔 You really wish to get that person back but it seems impossible? All you can do is let out all your sadness and unleash your depression madness. It was too painful that you can no longer feels your heart ! Doesn't matter whether you plan to get that person back or not but for now move on . You gotta let her go. Firstly, know how much you yourself worth. Do a prince/princess like you deserve to be treated this way or suffer this much pain? You worth alot, if that person couldn't treat you like you worth being treat then that person doesn't deserve to be with someone like you. Secondly, it is common to follow no contact rule but you had to know your motive of using no contact rule. I would strongly recommend you to follow no contact rule with only one mindset which is not hoping to get her .That means you totally give up on that person. I know what you might think. you might ask me ...

Forget about the past

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John and his princess, Felicia were going for a road trip. Felicia then requested to drive instead of John. Unfortunately, during their trip, the car crushed into a tree. John said "I make it but She didn't " It is obviously painful . What would John do? He would live the rest of his live feeling guilty for the death of his princess. "If only I didn't let her drive, she wouldn't ended like this!" . It is understandable that we human do gone through pain in the past and what do we do about it? We blame ourselves. It takes challenge to let things go, things that hurt you, things that make you bleed, things that wounded you, things that suffocate you. It could be the promotion that you didn't get, families, relatives or beloved who left you, woman who betrayed you. It takes courage and enough faith in you to face it so that what in front of you today is greater than what is in your past !  If the things that wounded you is sti...

Dealing with Anger

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Does your life have any doubt with anger or any problem controlling your anger? Don't worry, we all do. There is no wrong or right to angry but I do depends on the reason why we angry. Well, I personally used to have problem of dealing with my anger . I always lashed out and throw my tantrums around the room when I am angry . I tend to curse other people when I am angry as I couldn't control myself. But I decided to said it out loud and bring it to God, ask him to help me. For now, I would like to get into strategies to deal with your anger . Do not let your anger turn into sins.  Is it possible to not sin when you are angry ? (Ephesians 4:26) “In your anger do not sin Do not let the sun go down while you are still anger" Yes, The verse stated that it is possible not to sin when you are angry. But do not think that all anger are sin. Did you know that Jesus got angry ? Yet, he never sin . He was angry when he saw all the people were sellin...

Long term relationship

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Love is supposed to be no boundaries nor limits at all. It is supposed to be blind because not even age, distance, family, wealth or fame can fade it. Long distance relationship..... One of the worst nightmares that a couple could ever face. People often say "It is that time where your love and loyalties are tested". It is obviously the hardest stage. All those bubbles would pop out "Is that person worth waiting for? ", "Would that person cheat on me? " , "Should I end it before I gone mental or should I date my maid instead? " .It is understandable that long term relationship are a unpleasant experience. Nobody likes it and nobody would tell you that he/she enjoy her Boyfriend/Girlfriend being 20 hours away from them for months or years! It is hard, think of it positively, if you guys could survive this, you guys can survive anyhthing else! Long term relationship do make both of you stronger . It is not easy but it is easier nowadays...

Power of Forgiveness

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It is very common nowadays seeing people having hatred toward one another. It seems like they had never let go of the hatred and forgive one another. You might be having this issues too. I wanna share with you this parable from the Bible. The Parable of the Unmerciful Servant Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times. “Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt. “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged , ‘and I will pay back everything.’ The servant’s master took pity on hi...

Faith in God during hard times

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You might be having a tough time. It seems like the whole world is crashing down and weighing on your shoulders. You might think "God, why all these things happened to me! I don't want to continue to live anymore! " It is understandable that your life is hard. I want you to know that you are not alone and something good can come from the tough time you're in right now. You might say "God hate me,why does he forsaken me? " It's all right to feel that way, even the person closest to God, his Son, asked the very similar question when he was hanging on the cross, "My God, my God, Why have you forsaken me?" Even Jesus, the Son of God feel the pain and wondered where God was. You are not alone and God is still there at our lowest point . There's no way that God hates us , because He told us NOTHING could ever take His love away from us. No one, not even your friends your family can make you feel the way God can, with just His l...